It seems like there have been more blogging done recently by friends around me, other than Jia Hao who has always been consistently blogging one post a day, or to correct that sentence, posting one post a day.
I never thought I’ll say this, but I’m at the stage I can’t be bothered about Facebook. There’s nothing much new happening other than checking what’s going on in other people’s life! I’m using Facebook like I’m using Twitter. But I spend more time on Twitter than on Facebook though.
But blogging isn’t dead yet. Amongst all the various methods we use to personify ourselves, sometimes we still want to write a whole chunk of text that is more than 140 characters, and we want people to read us instead of just browsing past us on Facebook. And perhaps blogging is a better way of showing who you are since you are going to write your thoughts out.
Recently I am quite happy because it seems that some people are living their lives happily, not giving up on their hopes, working hard even though life may give us lemons at time. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. I was worried that my friend would not be happy, but since she is happy, I think I feel relieved too. There are some things in life you just did what you had to, but you don’t know if it will be for the best. But if the ending is happy, then I’m happy too.
Life just goes on whether we care about it or not. People are moving on day after day, and new people get into newer relationships. People seem to forget faster too. I don’t know if this should be a happy thing or not. For one, to be able to forget the past is like lifting a burden off your shoulders. But then again, does it mean that the value people place on r/s are so tiny that it is easy to forget?
Guess I’ll be better off not thinking about such things. Things are not how they used to be anymore.
But I wonder how do people meet other people and then get together? Do they get together because they have some common interest that binds them together? Like some shared passion?
When you go to work, how do you meet other people? Especially when workplace r/s are so messy you don’t even want to think about it. Do you just go out and then when you see a cute girl you go up and ask for her number? That sounds totally weird seriously.
And what if the girl is older than you? Will you mind? Actually, why should we mind? Come to think of it, it’s just some old mentality that the girl must be younger than the guy isn’t it? Sounds like that to me.
Haha don’t know why these questions come. But they did, so I’m asking for opinions.